It's Time to Embrace an Intentional Life

Find inspiration and action steps to live your best life and become the best version of yourself.

What I Do

Unveiling, Speaking, Coaching: Empowering Growth and Expression

I Write.

Exploring Life’s Narrative: Where Words Unveil Worlds. I Write, Therefore I Am. Unleash!

I Speak.

Empowering Voices, Igniting Conversations. I Speak, Amplifying Perspectives.

I Coach.

Elevating Potential, One Session at a Time. I Coach, Guiding Growth and Productivity.

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My Blogs

Here is an easy access to my blogs where knowledge meets inspiration. Dive into a world of captivating articles, insightful analyses and thought-provoking discussions.


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Welcome Note

Think possibility, think Transformation

I’m thrilled to welcome you to The Fragrant Life, my digital home of the internet streets. Here you will find me writing and sharing about topics dear to my heart. They include matters around but not limited to Self Discovery, Self improvement, Growth, Womanhood, Inspiration and Faith.

Our mission is simple yet profound: to guide you towards embracing the fullness of your potential, one intentional step at a time.

How it started


A little over a decade ago, as a young lady, I realised there was something in me to share with the world. I wanted to inspire people with some of the wisdom I gleaned as a child of God and generally for life, this intention birthed the vision of my first blog Modesola


In the year 2018, I moved on to my first self-hosted blog and blogged on the platform for the next 5 years. I experienced tremendous growth in my creative expression becoming a Podcaster, Author and then started a relationship memoir blog. 


Reminiscing the lost years 

The period of 2018-2023 which I refer to as the lost years was a critical time in my personal life. Becoming a married person and growing a family, I wrote more blogs that resonated deeply with me and my audience who were experiencing the same kind of growth. I found out I had lost the blog (hence, lost years) and that led me to restart.

From here on…

Expect to be captivated by the deep truths of personal growth delivered in a practical, simple and insightful manner as we delve into the timeless wisdom of self-improvement. With each visit, you’ll discover an array of resources meticulously crafted to ignite your inner spark and propel you towards meaningful transformation.

With love and fragrant hugs,

Tomi Jamal-Alayande